Handmade Lingerie Along The Butch/Tomboy Spectrum

Via MajoReyLingerie on Etsy

Via MajoReyLingerie on Etsy

Trying to look sexy while presenting as a butch or androgynous woman can be really hard. For me, and for many other butch, androgynous, or genderqueer people, gender happens day-by-day, and some days, having a bra that feels comfortable and looks attractive without radiating girliness is important. The good ol’ practical sports bra is a standby of women who exude androgynous vibes, and it can certainly be sexy, but sometimes you want to mix it up a little without tipping over into bows and frills territory.

That’s where Etsy comes in. It’s an amazing resource for handmade underwear in a variety of styles for a variety of shapes. Handmade can often be friendlier toward a wide range of gender presentations than off-the-rack, and many shops offer custom fits for very reasonable prices. So if you’re thinking about venturing into the world of lingerie, but find the lace and flowers and ruffles to be…well, a little feminine…here are few places you could look:

The Wireless Push-Up Bra from TOMgirl Apparel

Via TOMgirlApparel on Etsy

Via TOMgirlApparel on Etsy

If you haven’t taken off your sports bras in a while, this might be a gentle step into the world of underwear you could describe as “lingerie.” Supportive, ranging in sizes from A to G, this bra boasts that it offers “the comfort of a sports bra with the lift of a push-up.” The crossover back is a subtle but sexy detail. The company also makes cute bikini-cut undies and masculine-looking briefs that match their bras, depending on your taste.

The Victoria II Bra from Majo Rey Lingerie

via MajoReyLingerie on Etsy

Via MajoReyLingerie on Etsy

Majo Rey Lingerie advertises itself as “lingerie as erotic weapon”, and their looks do pack some punch. Some of their other styles hint at androgyny but the Victoria II is particularly strong in that regard: it’s supportive without providing a massive amount of cleavage, and the deep plunge keeps it sexy. What’s more, they seem to be courting a more androgynous audience with this one. From the styling of the shoot to the super cute tomboyish model, Majo Rey is reaching out to women who like a tougher look. Unfortunately they only carry up to a standard size C in stock, but they do accept custom orders.

The Summersweet Bra From On The Inside

Via OnTheInside on Etsy

Via OnTheInside on Etsy

On The Inside specializes in “comfortable lingerie, lovingly made”. Their SummerSweet Bra is made of bamboo cotton jersey with a lace trim that’s not quite as lacey as other laces–it reminds me of something an Amazon might wear. On The Inside offers made-to-measure bras and underwear in a variety of other styles that skirt the boundaries of feminine without being over the top. The one downside: most of their bras and camisoles are unlined, so these may be better in the bedroom than in the world, depending on your support needs. OnTheInside also makes some gorgeous frilly lingerie if you’re buying for a friend or significant other–but you may want to read about how to buy lingerie for someone else first!

The Kamaria Lingerie Set from Toru and Naoko

via ToruandNaoko on Etsy

via ToruandNaoko on Etsy

For a fancier occasion, or for particularly femme days, this set is reminiscent both of old-school garters-and-stockings lingerie as well as more macho fetish-inspired gear. Toru and Naoko’s sets tend to be very architectural-looking, which makes them less overtly feminine while still being–well, beautiful!

Toru and Naoko offers custom fits and changes to the style of the garment, so ask away! They also sell sets rather than separate garments, which is a nice touch.

These are some of the options that strike me as gender-friendly, but of course there’s many more! What androgynous lingerie styles have you noticed, and do they work for you?

3 Comments

  1. 10/06/14 at 13:23

    Thanks for sharing my work! Personally I don’t consider myself as a tomboy but I’ve always felt uncomfortable trying to wear lacy lingerie, animal prints or more baroque styles. That’s why I created Toru & Naoko :)
    I love mesh, soft bras that are still supportive and looking sexy while being comfortable! Besides that it’s really hard, at least here in South America to find beautiful bras without padding or underwires!

  2. Rose
    10/06/14 at 21:20

    Thanks for reading, Camila, and for making such gorgeous work in the first place!

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