A certain romantic bee show has had everyone buzzing, including me. Bees symbolize fertility, wealth, hard work, and good luck…a few things many of us have had in mind lately. With that in mind, here are five sets that make me feel like flitting from flower to flower.
Jessica Stoya is a semi-retired adult performer and writer. Bylines include the New York Times, VICE, The Guardian, and Stoya is half of Slate’s How To Do It sex advice column. I’ve spent a lot of time over the past 15 years in front of cameras aiming to look sexy and expensive. I’ve got both adoration for and justification of purchasing luxury lingerie. Post COVID, I’m also somewhere between a […]
Jessica Stoya is a semi-retired adult performer and writer. Bylines include the New York Times, VICE, The Guardian, and Stoya is half of Slate’s How To Do It sex advice column. I’m a difficult fit when it comes to structured lingerie. I’ve got a wide rib cage, with muscle over top, and wide set breasts with wide bases but shallow projection. I’m a 36A, or even 36AA. Looking around, I’m […]
That annual holiday of love and romance has rolled around yet again, and with it, the time for a new, luxuriously curated Valentine’s Day shopping guide. By now, if you’ve read a few of these guides, you know how it goes. But just in case there are new readers among you (welcome!), the general idea is that I share a range of products – from inexpensive to luxury, from small […]
This article has been graciously sponsored by Jane’s Vanity. Has there ever been a holiday where there’s more pressure to buy lingerie than Valentine’s Day? Amidst all the expressions of love (and its more corporeal trappings such as flowers and chocolates), there’s also this idea that the ultimate gift – the perfect gift – is lingerie. So let’s say your paramour (or, for the platonic romantics among you, your best […]






