3 Seductive Movie Scenes to Inspire You This Valentines Day

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By: Laura

Being a lingerie designer, I hear a lot of personal information about love lives. TMI? No WAY! I love to hear from friends, customers, and strangers at bars what their favorite romantic practices are, and, even better, what they WISH for…

Here’s a common refrain I hear from men:
“I want to get her some lingerie that’s a gift for her as well as me. She only wears T shirts, and I would LOVE to see her in something sexier, but I don’t want to offend her buy buying something too suggestive.”

And a lot of women say pretty much the same thing:
“I like the idea of wearing sexy lingerie, but I’m too tired to bother, and I’d feel sort of embarrassed to try anyway.”

Well, there’s no time like Valentine’s Day to make wishes come true. A little lingerie, a little wine, and a spirit of….adventure will go a long way this February 14th. I’ve compiled some tips inspired by three classic seduction scenes from favorite movies to help guide your own romantic scenes. These are three very different, very feminine moves that worked for each of the leading ladies, and will blow your real-life man away as well. Watch the movie clips and smile.

Helping me out with both the man’s perspective and his wine expertise is Gregory Von Hess, wine educator and owner of YN Bar in Manhattan. Check out www.lolahaze.com in the coming weeks for lingerie and wine pairings that Gregory and I have curated to make your Valentine’s Day unforgettable.

INNOCENT STRIPTEASE, a la Jennifer Beals in “Flashdance”

Those big, innocent eyes belie the masterful seduction move going on. Jennifer is giving some sort of monologue about art while taking her bra off! As though he’s listening to a single thing she’s saying! When she invites him to close his eyes and “see the music,” he’s obviously just picturing her naked. Well played, girl…well played.

1) Sit facing but not touching him. Talk about something you feel passionate about, like dance or fine wine. Babble on for awhile.

2) As you’re talking, casually start taking off your own clothes. Maybe the bra, but maybe something else, like stockings or a blouse. It doesn’t matter WHAT you’re taking off, as long as your actions appear casual and innocent, and as long as you are touching your own skin with your fingers.

3) Invite him to close his eyes and sip the most innocent yet seductive wine….Pinot Noir. On the nose she is subtle, even unassuming, but in the mouth her true powers unfold and surprise.

4) Kiss that guy. He’s been waiting long enough. Under your dance outfit, wear the Cross Hipster by Lola Haze, which is pink and innocent, but sexily transparent, just like this move.

Lola Haze Signature Cross Hipster in Petal Pink (enter code “valentines” for 30% off)

PRETEND YOU JUST MET, a la Agent J. Lo in “Out of Sight”

Maybe the steamiest scene of all time–and the most remarkable thing is that it stays PG. Yes, it helps that the players are Jennifer Lopez and George Clooney, but just because we may not have his eyes or her assets, it doesn’t mean we can’t have Hollywood chemistry.

1) Arrange to meet your playmate at a dark, romantic bar or your own living room.

2) Act surprised to see him when he sits down. Flirt with your eyes, quietly and knowingly. There’s no need for giggly girlishness; you’re packing heat, after all.

3) Sip a glass of Cabernet. She has a bold, voluptuous stature, and she always delivers on her promise.

4) Offer to share your glass with him when his runs out. Brush his fingers when you pass the glass.

5) When you’ve kept him waiting just a teeny bit too long, ask, “want to get out of here?”

6) Lead him to the bedroom. From across the room, slink out of your dress. Be wearing this sexy Embrace Teddy from Lola Haze. Smile.

Lola Haze Embrace Teddy in Black (enter code “valentines” for 30% off)

IF ALL ELSE FAILS, THERE’S ALWAYS ENTRAPMENT, a la Mrs. Robinson in “The Graduate”

The experienced Mrs. Robinson knows how simple boys are. Just get them alone, feed them a drink, and the rest will take care of itself. Most important, deny all knowledge of the seduction scene you are plotting. In fact, when he asks, “Are you trying to seduce me??” laugh heartily.

1) Create a pretense for getting him home. Maybe you’re afraid of the dark. Maybe you’ve lost your keys and need him to climb in a window for you.

2) Since he’s there, offer him the thigh-high of drinks, Rose Champagne. She is a sophisticated tease who means two things: I’m yours and bottoms-up!

3) Tell him something deeply personal about yourself, something surprising, something you’ve overcome.

4) You are tired. Your dress zips up the back, so you need his help. Ask him matter of factly to come upstairs and help.

5) Mrs. Robinson wore slips and so should you. Under your dress, have this shimmery Whisper Slip from Lola Haze on.

Lola Haze Signature Whisper Slip in Black (enter code “valentines” for 30% off)

Or create your own romantic seduction scenes this Valentine’s Day! Maybe even film it to immortalize your own movie scene. Dress cute, drink wine, have fun!